‘If you are black man and not ghetto what is the point of you being black?’ that is the message that is coming from a majority of white girls (and some black/mixed race girls) who are attracted to black men only. Now I am not saying all white/black/mixed race girls think this that is not the case there are many girls who do not, I am just giving you an example of the girls who do and the reasons behind it.
You could be dirt a broke black man, dumb as they come, no prospects whatsoever, no ambition, eight kids by eight different girls, but if your ghetto got a snapback (lol) and dressed like you could be a poster boy for JD sports you will still have your pick of the girls. Now spin that on its head if you're a black man educated, got a good job, nice guy, ambitious, articulate, going places, doesn’t own a snapback (lol) them same girls will not even bat an eyelid at you you are completely indivisible to them. How is that so? It doesn’t make sense. The thing that you have to understand is the media has created this image of what a black man is (from music videos and Films) the way he should act, the way he should talk and dress. It has gassed a lot of girls up beyond belief, where it has got to the point where in this lost generation we are living in the majority of white girls who get into relationships with a black men are attracted to the image the ghettoness rather than the man, he could be the biggest waste of space on road, but as the Rock says ‘It doesn’t matter’ because his hood his ghetto his got that swagger (I hate that word).
A white girl can go with a nice white guy with a good job who’s ambitious, articulate and going places so why would she get with a black man who is like that? Most white girls who tell you they are only attracted to black men and would never date a white man, want the image of a stereotypical black male it has turned into a most have trend like a Louis Vuitton bag or a pair Louboutin shoes now being a white male and ghetto isn’t the same as being a black male and ghetto as the media tells you it’s just white males being wananabes so its programmed into the society as very cringe. Hence why I said a white girl can get with a nice white boy with all the things I listed but he won’t be GHETTO like a black male as the media portrays I use the term ‘girls’ because that is what they are girls not woman but girls at some stage they are going to get to a point when they realise ‘ this guys a wasteman’ they get to the point where they start thinking I want a house a family a nice life nice things etc etc, that’s why you see a lot of white woman marrying African guys (who weren’t born or brought up in the said country) when they reach their late 20’s (or when they have matured mentally) the reason being these guys are going places 100 per cent on being successful and fully driven to get there.
I have experienced this madness first hand myself, I was coming back from work one time had the smart casual look going on smart shirt, navy chinos, nice pair of shoes, in a nutshell I was looking professional. Now I walked passed a group of girls who where in my direct eye line not one of them even batted an eyelid. A few days later I was dressed casual as one can be I had my snapback on now I don’t really wear hats but I wore it anyways as it was a hot day and I wanted to keep the sun out of my eyes, I end up walking pass a couple of the same girls I walked passed prior a few days ago, now this time they looked so hard I thought they was going snap their necks. (That is just a small example I have bigger ones but then this blog will go on page after page)
Now I have compiled a list of what these girls look for in a black ghetto male below:
1. Most be somehow involved in grime scene mcing preferably, or just a guy who writes bars on his phone.
2. Colour coordinated tracksuits, with trainers and hats (looking like you fallen out of a pack of skittles)
3. Has a weed habit
4. ON THIS TING!!!! (see number 1)
5. Jamaican
6. A blackberry is a most as 99 per cent of this girls have blackberrys and they aren’t on sms-ing (how else are you going to get in contact with them )
7. Most talk black (whatever talking black means still to this day I am at a loss)
8. Involved in criminal activities you don’t have to be a mastermind criminal like Professor James Moriarty or even make money in fact make no money, just as long as you seem to be criminal it’s all kosher
9. A wasteman (self explanatory )
10. Do dumb stuff like buy a car unlegitally but can’t afford to run it so you have to borrow petrol money of the said girls I am talking about
11. Any black hertiatge but most act like number 5 (thats for you to look at number 5 if you didn’t realise)
12 A Bokey guy
I'm white and have gone out with a few black guys. I think there might be something else going on here..
ReplyDeletePersonally, I find ambition really attractive - someone who has the capability to imagine a life different to what they are currently living. I've found this quite rare - or maybe quite hidden - in white guys and not so much for the black guys.
I'm not going to say much more because I'm talking in really broad terms and am conscious my argument could be ripped to shreds because of it. But that is my view on the subject, for what it's worth.
"a guy who writes bars on his phone" - that's so funny.
ReplyDeleteWell, you must be really into white girls if you care what the ones you meet/see think about you. (Just an assumption, perhaps not a fact!
I think the way of thinking you are referring to applies to wider society as a whole, and not just "white girls" that are into black men. For example, the idea is alive and well that a professional black person has somewhat transcended the limitations of his race, and a ghetto black person is basicallly the baseline. It's the same racism.
As it happens, I think you're overstating the problem. Most of the professional black men I know have no problem meeting and dating white women. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places?